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NEURODIVERGENT NARRATIVES - CHAPTER 11: FALLING IN LOVE

That Moment When You Just Know it’s Right.

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Dr. Angela Kingdon
Dec 12, 2025
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There is a particular kind of quiet that settles between two Autistic people when something begins to shift. Not the silence of running out of small talk, but the calm that arrives when you realise the other person is not waiting for you to be easier, softer, less intense. A shared joke lands, a special interest loops back for the third time, hands flap in the same rhythm, and instead of embarrassment there is relief. Your body clocks it first, long before your mind catches up. Here. This. This feels different.

This chapter lives in that moment of recognition. At a time when Autistic lives are still framed through pity or tragedy, these love stories move in another direction altogether. They show what it means when two nervous systems finally meet on level ground, and both people feel themselves becoming more real in the presence of the other.

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